"The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather what he does not say."
When you're visiting one of the most amazing places in America (read Grand Canyon), everything seems just a little more magical. So when you encounter a real park ranger (I'm clearly a city girl), you ask questions about her. And of course, she's genuine and kind. Why wouldn't she be? Her superpower is UNDERSTANDING. And we are better for having met her!